Social media star Kayla Nicole-Jones has taken a stand against today’s casual sex culture. The internet comic actress recently took to TikTok Live to criticize hook-up culture.
Kayla Nicole offered her thoughts about the current state of people casually having sex. She noted that although the sex act, in itself, was not wrong as it had been ordained by God, there was nothing casual about it.
“It’s not wrong to want to have sex. God gave us those emotions. But nothing about sex is casual. No matter what you believe in. It’s not liberating to just sleep around. That is the opposite of liberation. Liberation is having control and discipline. You know, you can do it, but you don’t. You’re not so easily pulled in,” the “I Hate It Here” rapper explained.
Nicole-Jones argued that while it’s expected to crave intimacy, it’s not okay to have sex with “attractive strangers” just because you feel the “vibes.”
To establish her point, she shared how her date got “mad” and started acting out because she didn’t want to get freaky during their first encounter.
“Why do you want to take me out of my drawers? You just saw me. Grown people don’t act like that, chill,” she remembered telling the thirsty man.
“‘I thought you said you like me. The only thing you like is the idea of wanting to get in my drawers. You don’t even really like me. How did you know you liked me? We didn’t even get to know each other.'”
The mother of two advised her followers to be cautious before becoming intimate with someone they hardly know. Nicole-Jones emphasized the potentially severe outcomes of engaging in indiscriminate sex, such as getting an STD.
She advocated that women and men should vet and get to know the person they’re dating before they decide to have sex.
