At 110 years old, Ruth Onley is living proof that faith and family can be key ingredients to a long, fulfilling life.
Born in 1914 in Weverton, Maryland, Onley’s remarkable journey has spanned over a century, rooted in her deep religious beliefs and a life dedicated to caring for her loved ones.
With her father living nearly to 105, longevity seems to run in her family, but Onley attributes her lasting health to two things: God’s plan and the unwavering support of her family.
Family and Faith: The Secrets to Longevity
Raised as one of ten siblings, Onley’s early life involved helping care for her family and working in homes of prominent Maryland families before starting a family of her own.
She married Robert Onley at 26 and became a mother of five, eventually becoming the matriarch of a large family with 15 grandchildren, 50 great-grandchildren, 25 great-great-grandchildren, and even two great-great-great-grandchildren.
Onley credits her long life to the love and care she receives from her children, saying:
“It’s the way my children take care of me.” Her faith has also been a guiding force, with Onley humorously noting, “(God) told me my days were all numbered. But he didn’t tell me the number.”
A Life of Joy, Good Food, and Fun
Cooking has been one of Onley’s enduring passions. Every Sunday after church, she would prepare a soul food feast for family and neighbors, featuring dishes like fried chicken, peach cobbler, and macaroni and cheese.
Even in her later years, Onley’s culinary skills, including canning jams and pickles, remain fondly remembered by her family.
Despite her age, Onley’s zest for life remains strong.
She enjoys beating her grandchildren at card games, Scrabble, and Connect 4, and still spends her days crocheting and watching game shows.
Her diet includes wholesome meals, starting with oatmeal or whole-grain pancakes and finishing with sweet treats like root beer floats and banana splits.
Faith as Her Guiding Light
Onley’s devotion to her faith has been a constant source of strength. After becoming a widow at 48, she never remarried, saying:
“Once your husband dies, the Lord becomes your husband.” Her favorite hymn, “Amazing Grace,” reflects her gratitude for the life she’s led: “Through many dangers, toils, and snares, I have already come. The Lord hath brought me safe thus far, and the Lord will lead me home.”
Ruth Onley’s life is a testament to the power of faith, family, and living each day with purpose and joy.
