Gia Casey, wife of DJ Envy from The Breakfast Club, is shedding light on a surprising decade-long secret about orgasms in the bedroom.
In an honest discussion with Angela Yee, Gia disclosed a striking confession that for the first ten years of their relationship, she habitually faked orgasms during sex. “Truthfully, we were having sex for years, and I was faking all of my orgasms,” Gia admitted. “All of the ones through intercourse, yes. It was a whole performance.”
While this revelation might seem like a critique of her well-known husband, Gia was quick to take responsibility for her actions, clarifying that her behavior stemmed from societal pressures rather than personal issues. She pointed to a significant cultural narrative that portrays women as mere “playthings for men,” suggesting that women primarily exist to please men. “As girls, we are raised to think that women are like playthings for men,” she explained. “You know, we are here for the pleasing of men. And we were taught that subconsciously when you think about it.”
Gia emphasized that this ingrained conditioning, visible in everything from advertisements to social media, leads women to prioritize a man’s ego and enjoyment over their own satisfaction. When she started her sexual journey, she unconsciously leaned into this learned behavior.
She noticed that the more she “performed,” the more enthusiastic her boyfriend, who later became her husband, would become. This positive feedback loop felt gratifying for her ego, even though it didn’t align with her true experiences. “The more you perform, the more excited they get, the more they think they’re putting in, the better the experience,” she acknowledged.
This led Gia into what she described as a “rabbit hole.” “Because once I started it, I couldn’t go back and undo it.” The prospect of admitting a decade of pretense became an emotional prison, trapping her in her performance.
So, how did she break free from this cycle of insincerity? A significant argument with DJ Envy served as a turning point. After that intense conversation, she set a firm ultimatum, leading to a moment of raw honesty that transformed their sexual relationship.
