In an emotional and unforgettable moment during University High School’s Class of 2025 graduation ceremony, Roshaunda Carr walked across the stage not for herself — but for her daughter, Jakayla Gardner Carr, who tragically passed away in her sleep after a seizure just months before she was set to graduate.
Wearing Jakayla’s cap and gown and carrying a photo of her daughter pinned to her chest, Carr stood in for the young woman who had battled epilepsy since the age of 11, yet remained determined to excel academically.
The bittersweet tribute brought tears and applause from those in attendance, who honored Jakayla’s memory with a standing ovation.
“It’s bittersweet,” Carr told WLBT News. “Jakayla is the first out of her siblings to graduate, so today is just a lot of emotions.”
Jakayla had been preparing to graduate alongside her sister, Aniyah, when tragedy struck on the morning of October 6, 2024. Carr recalled texting her daughter to remind her to take her medication, but when she didn’t receive a reply, she went to check on her — only to discover Jakayla had died in her sleep following a seizure.
A Legacy of Love and Advocacy
Since her daughter’s unexpected passing, Carr has committed herself to keeping Jakayla’s spirit alive by launching a nonprofit organization in her name. The mission will focus on epilepsy awareness and supporting families impacted by the disorder. Carr is currently seeking volunteers to help bring the initiative to life.
“She’s very, very proud,” Carr said, imagining her daughter’s joyful spirit. “She’s probably behind me doing a silly dance as we do the interview. She’s proud.”
As the ceremony came to a close, Carr delivered a simple but powerful message directly to her daughter:
“I love you. Mama loves you. You did it. Congratulations, baby girl.”
Jakayla’s story is a reminder of the strength of family, the lasting impact of a young life, and the importance of epilepsy awareness and advocacy.
