Recording artist and Christian content creator Talia Perez is sparking widespread conversation online after a video she posted about celibacy and dating with intention went viral across social media platforms.
In the now widely shared clip, Perez, 27, candidly addresses her decision to wait until marriage before entering a serious romantic relationship — a personal choice that she says often surprises others, especially in today’s hookup-driven dating culture.
“So I’m 27 years old and I’m not afraid to admit that I have never had a boyfriend, never been in a serious relationship,” Perez begins in her video. “And I think it’s funny because so many people, like they freak out when I say that.”
She then critiques the common analogy often used by those who question her stance — likening relationships to “test driving a car” before making a commitment.
“Even if you did test drive a car, you can’t even leave that parking lot without signing paperwork,” she quips. “So that’s a terrible analogy.”
But the video wasn’t just about witty clapbacks. Perez used the moment to make a firm declaration of faith and purpose behind her relationship standards.
“Hello, you want the benefits of marriage without the covenant part, without saying ‘I do’? That’s not how it works, buddy,” she states bluntly. “My mindset is somewhat counter-cultural, but instead of following culture, I follow Christ.”
Perez’s message — which touches on dating to marry and rejecting cultural pressures around premarital sex — has resonated deeply with many, particularly among young Christian audiences who often feel out of step with mainstream relationship norms.
“For me, it’s not up for negotiation,” she said. “Following Christ over culture will always have long-term eternal benefits.”
The clip, which has been reposted across Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, has drawn both praise and debate, igniting a broader dialogue about celibacy, faith, and personal conviction in modern dating.
“Following CHRIST over CULTURE this statement alone SUMS it all up!! I am SUPER proud of you my daughter is on the same journey #christoverculture,” someone commented.
