In a world where outrage often drowns out dialogue, Loretta J. Ross is charting a radically different course — one grounded in compassion, even in the face of hatred.
A renowned activist, scholar, and survivor, Ross once made the unthinkable choice to attend Ku Klux Klan rallies — not to protest or confront, but to listen.
It wasn’t about agreeing with the Klan’s ideology, far from it. It was about creating space for transformation.
“Hate only begets more hate,” Ross has said. “But understanding — even when it’s hard — opens the door to change.”
From Survivor to Social Healer
Ross, who has survived sexual violence, racism, and systemic oppression, doesn’t approach the work of justice from a place of vengeance. Instead, she embodies what she calls “Calling In Culture” — a practice of accountability rooted in love, dialogue, and the belief that even those steeped in hate can choose another path.
“Calling in” is Ross’s alternative to “calling out” — a method that prioritizes growth over shame. And for Ross, that means showing up even where she is least expected. Her approach challenges the idea that transformation can be forced. Instead, she believes that compassion creates the conditions for people to question their biases — and leave hate behind.
Holding Space for Growth
No, Ross isn’t suggesting that everyone should walk into a hate group’s rally. But her message is crystal clear: change doesn’t happen by pushing people away — it begins by making space for them to grow.
In an age where social media often fuels division and ideological echo chambers, Ross’s message cuts through: real activism is patient, principled, and deeply human.
A New Framework for Justice
Loretta J. Ross’s work isn’t just symbolic — it’s instructional. From her teaching at Smith College to her grassroots organizing, she’s helping build a justice framework centered on restorative dialogue, not performative outrage.
Her life reminds us that courage isn’t just about speaking out — sometimes, it’s about listening in. Not to endorse hate, but to disarm it.
