Emmy-winning actress Sheryl Lee Ralph has issued a call to action for people over 40 to be more aware of how they address younger generations.
In a recent social media post, Ralph stressed the importance of using proper names and pronouns when interacting with others, especially those who identify as non-binary.
The “Abbott Elementary” star discussed respecting people’s identities, particularly for the older generation who may struggle with these changes.
“Hey, everybody. I hope you’re having a wonderful day,” Ralph began, addressing her followers warmly before diving into her message. “Listen, this message is for those who are of a certain age, over forty. Some of the things you used to do and say when you were young are not gonna work right now. Okay?”
“These children right now want to be called by their name. They want to be respected by their pronouns,” Sheryl Lee Ralph stated. She acknowledged that adapting to these changes might be challenging for some but urged her followers to make an effort. “It might be hard for some of you to say, ‘Hey, Apple. How are you doing?'” she said, referencing a potential name.
“It might even be more difficult for some folks when they don’t look like a he or she to you but want to be called they, him or her. Call them by their name. Please don’t call them out of their name.”
The Emmy-winning actress also reminded her audience of the golden rule, pointing out how everyone dislikes being called out of their name.
“You know how you get when people call you out of your name. Don’t do it. Alright? Just try. Thank you,” Sheryl Lee Ralph concluded.
Ralph’s message elicited a mixed response online. While some fans praised her for promoting inclusivity and respect, others held opposing views. Some argued that while it is important to be respectful, people should not be forced to use pronouns that do not reflect their personal beliefs.
“I feel you, but I’m not calling a kid a cat because they want to be a cat is all I’m saying,” one user wrote.
Another added, “I feel like we are catering way too much to people vs having a real discussion about mental health and wellness.”
“I refuse to speak improper English on that level to fit someone’s delusion….sorry, not sorry,” someone else pointed out.
