A video shared on social media by a woman who claims her former lesbian partner allegedly destroyed her apartment following the end of their relationship has gone viral.
The woman says the property damage caused by her stud ex has left her traumatized, so now she is reconsidering dating life entirely.
The story gained traction after being amplified by digital creators like DJ Yoyo (@djyoyo), who described the incident as “wild” and deeply disturbing.
According to the woman, her ex—whom she described as a “stud” partner—refused to accept their breakup and allegedly retaliated by damaging nearly everything inside the home, including items belonging to her children.
In an emotional video filmed inside the apartment, the woman showed extensive destruction, saying her bed was broken, her television damaged, her dishes smashed, and her child’s MacBook destroyed. She also alleged that food and business supplies meant for her upcoming cookie venture were deliberately ruined, threatening her family’s livelihood.
“I’ve been telling her all year to get a job and help pay bills,” the woman said, explaining that she had been in “survival mode” trying to keep a roof over the heads of her children.
She disputed claims made online by her ex that infidelity caused the breakup, insisting she had clearly ended the relationship multiple times over several months.
The woman said she was out of state when the alleged destruction occurred and only realized the extent of the damage upon returning home. Fighting back tears while comforting her child on camera, she said the most painful part was seeing her children’s belongings destroyed.
“This was not that serious,” she said, adding that she intended to involve law enforcement to recover the cost of the damages.
In the aftermath, the woman made a statement that quickly spread across social media: she said the experience had pushed her to stop dating women altogether and that she planned to date men going forward.
The remark has since fueled broader debate online, with some users saying violence in relationship can happen regardless of gender, while others cautioned against generalizing one person’s behavior to an entire community.
Relationship experts note that intimate partner violence and property destruction can occur in all types of relationships and stress the importance of support systems, accountability, and legal protection for victims—especially when children are involved.
