After nearly 30 years of marriage, Akon’s marriage to his first wife, Tomeka Thiam, is officially coming to a close. She has filed for divorce just four days shy of their 29th wedding anniversary, and it’s clear she’s not going down without a fight.
In court documents from Fulton County, Georgia, Tomeka has cited irreconcilable differences as the reason for the separation. She’s seeking joint legal custody of their 17-year-old daughter but wants primary physical custody, meaning their daughter would primarily live with her. Additionally, Tomeka is requesting spousal support and has stated that Akon should not receive any financial compensation in return.
Things are getting even more complicated, as reports indicate that Tomeka is aiming for half of Akon’s estimated net worth, which exceeds $100 million. This places nearly $50 million at stake. Fans are also noting that Tomeka stood by Akon’s side when he was just starting out, before his rise to fame, his Grammy wins, and his global recognition.

The divorce papers also highlight Akon’s unusual family situation. The Senegalese-American singer has been open about having multiple wives and at least nine children. Tomeka is known as his first wife and is the mother of two of his children, adding more layers to this complicated divorce saga.
Social media has been buzzing with reactions. Some users are praising Tomeka for asserting her rights after nearly three decades, while others are criticizing Akon for allowing things to come to this point. One fan tweeted, “29 years? She put in her time. Pay up, Akon.” Another quipped, “Not Akon about to be Lonely AND $50M poorer.”
Akon is known for being one of the most influential artists of the 2000s with hits like “Lonely” and “Locked Up.” He’s also recognized for his philanthropic efforts and ambitious projects in Africa, including Akon City.
