An emotional plea for mental health awareness is resonating across social media after a young Black woman took to Instagram to share her heartbreak following the loss of her younger brother to suicide.
Sabae Miller, who posts under the handle @onlynevaehh, shared a raw video and written message in which she publicly opens up about her family’s loss.
Her brother, whose name has not been released, died by suicide recently, a tragedy that has now become a rallying cry for advocacy and awareness.
“It’s time to spread awareness about suicide,” Miller wrote in the post. “It’s time to advocate and stop hiding behind doors. Suicide is a real thing, and I feel like we don’t understand until it happens close to us. And my brother was loved.”
In the accompanying video, Miller introduces herself through tears and begins by saying:
“I have lost my baby brother… too soon to die.”
She goes on to speak about the importance of connection, reminding viewers that there are people who care, and there are always resources and support systems available.
“You feel better when somebody loves you, somebody appreciates you. There are so many resources out there to turn to,” she said, urging those who are struggling to talk to someone—anyone—before making a tragic decision.
Miller also revealed that this is the second time suicide has touched her life, sharing that she had previously lost another loved one, her friend Kaylee.
“I miss you, Kaylee. I miss you too,” she said during the video.
What makes Miller’s message resonate so deeply is her insistence that love, support, and awareness aren’t always enough, but they’re still essential. She stated further that her family was close and caring, and that no one was to blame. Her call is not one of guilt, but of urgent advocacy.
“We didn’t fail him,” she said. “It’s one of those moments where we need to come together and advocate for those who are not advocating for themselves.”
Many of the comments about Miller’s video were supportive:
“I understand 💔😢sis I just lost one of my younger sisters she died may 29 of cancer🥺”, posted one person.
Another said:
“Perfectly said and done young lady. I’m so sorry for your loss! May God through Jesus do what only he can!!!”
Miller’s post comes amid ongoing national conversations about youth mental health, suicide prevention, and the importance of culturally specific resources.
If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, support is available. In the U.S., dial 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7.
