Social media creator @theexceledit is challenging the dating world to rethink relationships in 2026 with a new manifesto on Instagram.
Her post makes a case for intentionality, boundaries, and shared values when choosing a partner in 2026.
In a video posted alongside the caption, “2026 is for intentional dating,” the creator laid out an A-to-Z framework for identifying alignment—or the lack thereof—in potential partners.
The manifesto covers a broad range of qualities, from ambition, boundaries, and discipline to emotional intelligence, financial responsibility, generosity, health, justice, kindness, loyalty, maturity, ownership, purpose, quality of life, self-sufficiency, upward momentum, work ethic, respect for community, and zeal for life.
According to the video, any misalignment in these core traits signals that a potential partner may not be compatible.
“I’m not afraid of being alone. A partner is optional, but alignment is not,” @theexceledit states, stressing that dating in 2026 should focus on meaningful connections rather than settling out of convenience. The video also underscores emotional awareness, accountability, and respect for autonomy as non-negotiable criteria.
The post is generating loads of reactions and commentaries about dating standards, self-respect, and the growing trend of intentional relationships among young adults.
Experts note that such frameworks reflect a shift toward prioritizing personal growth, mental health, and clear expectations in modern dating.
