In a recent interview on the “We In Miami” podcast, Madam Jelli, who identifies as intersex, shared her unique experiences growing up with the condition and how it has impacted her dating life.
Madam Jelli, an emerging sensation on TikTok, has ignited intrigue and discussion by openly discussing her experience as a hermaphrodite on the We In Miami podcast.
In an uncommon and enlightening interview, she described how her condition—being born with both male and female genitalia—has influenced her identity, self-esteem, and even her romantic experiences.
“A hermaphrodite is someone who was born with both male and female genitals,” Jelli explained during the interview. “I was born with both a vagina and a penis. No, I don’t have balls. The vagina is up under the male organ.”
She described how her condition evolved over time, adding, “When I was born, it started off very small, but as I grew older, it grew bigger. By the time I turned 25, it hit a major growth spurt. I’m like nine inches now. It’s out of my control—I was born this way. My mama didn’t choose to cut one of them off, so I’ve just learned to embrace it and be who I am.”
When it comes to her dating life, Jelli revealed that her condition doesn’t deter men—in fact, some embrace it. “You would be surprised,” she said. “I’ve met many guys who don’t make it a problem. They love it.”
She explained that most men are initially attracted to her as a woman, which sets the foundation for their connection. “He saw a woman first, so you have to give him that. When we laid down, he got an extra bonus, but that doesn’t make him bisexual. I’m still a woman,” Jelli shared with unapologetic confidence.
Hermaphroditism, as defined, is the condition of having both male and female reproductive organs. While the condition is rare, it sheds light on the complexities of sexual differentiation. According to the National Library of Medicine, true hermaphroditism accounts for only 5% of all disorders of sexual differentiation (DSD).
Despite societal misunderstandings and stigma, Madam Jelli has decided to embrace her reality!