American comedian and actress Tiffany Haddish is reaffirming her commitment to herself, declaring that any potential partner must surpass the love, care, and standards she has already set through her self-marriage.
In a candid interview with TMZ on Monday, Jan. 19, 2026, at the launch of the Typti pickleball paddle brand in Los Angeles, Haddish doubled down on her 2024 decision to marry herself in a private ceremony.
She explained that self-love is the foundation:
“If you wouldn’t date someone who looks just like you and commit to yourself first, how the hell do you expect someone else to do it?”
The actress explained that she remains open to a relationship — humorously referring to a future partner as a possible “third wheel” — but set a high bar.
“Any man who wants to make me happy better come harder than I already do for myself,” she said, stressing that self-marriage has given her a clear benchmark for treatment and respect.
Haddish also shared her Valentine’s Day plans, describing a luxurious solo date filled with the things she enjoys most — a powerful statement that her own company remains her top priority.
The interview has quickly gone viral, with fans and commentators praising her unapologetic embrace of self-worth, while others debate the cultural and relational implications of self-marriage.
For many, Haddish’s stance comes across as both empowering and refreshing. Her message aligns with growing conversations around mental health, self-care, and rejecting substandard partnerships in an era of rising female independence.
Haddish, known for her roles in Girls Trip, The Afterparty, and her stand-up specials, has consistently used her platform to champion self-love, resilience, and authenticity. Her latest comments continue to position her as a bold voice in Hollywood and beyond.
